My Story Supporting My daughter with BPD caused by a childhood trauma

🦒 A Day That Finally Happened

🦒 A Day That Finally Happened

🦒 A Day That Finally HappenedSami Ward
Published on: 10/11/2025

After three cancellations, a mum and daughter finally make it to Yorkshire Wildlife Park. A story of flexibility, patience, and learning to plan life around emotional wellbeing, not the calendar.

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The Parent’s Recovery: Rebuilding After Crisis

The Parent’s Recovery: Rebuilding After Crisis

The Parent’s Recovery: Rebuilding After Crisis

Sami Ward
Published on: 08/11/2025

When your loved one stabilises, your recovery begins. Learn how to gently rebuild your calm, reconnect with yourself, and move out of survival mode

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Coming Out of Crisis: The Week After the Storm

Coming Out of Crisis: The Week After the Storm

Coming Out of Crisis: The Week After the Storm



Sami Ward
Published on: 03/11/2025

The week after a psychiatric discharge isn’t calm; it’s fragile. A mother shares the truth about post-crisis exhaustion, fragile hope, and learning to breathe again.

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Crisis From Afar: When Loneliness and Guilt Take Over 💔📞

Crisis From Afar: When Loneliness and Guilt Take Over 💔📞

Crisis From Afar: When Loneliness and Guilt Take Over 💔📞Sami Ward
Published on: 01/09/2025

Crisis From Afar: When Loneliness and Guilt Take Over. When we left for France, my daughter decided to stay home. It felt like the right choice for her at the time, avoiding the overwhelm of travel, new places, new food, the sheer noise of it all. But what none of us could predict was how quickly the silence at home would turn against her.

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Why Overwhelm Feels Like Drowning (and How to Spot It Early) 🌊

Why Overwhelm Feels Like Drowning (and How to Spot It Early) 🌊

Why Overwhelm Feels Like Drowning (and How to Spot It Early) 🌊Sami Ward
Published on: 29/08/2025

When you hear the word “overwhelm”, it probably makes you think of a busy day at work, a long to-do list, or too many things happening at once. Stressful, yes — but usually manageable. For someone living with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) or Complex PTSD, “overwhelm” is a completely different experience. It doesn’t feel like juggling too many balls. It feels like drowning.

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